The Inner Sactum

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SASSY TOM WILL ALWAYS BE MY FAVE

Snarky!Tom is my spirit animal.
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WHAT YOU SHOULD DO:    Stay with us and keep calm.The last thing we need when we’re panicking, is to have someone else panicking with us.
Offer medicine if we usually take it during an attack.You might have to ask whether or not we take medicine- heck, some might not; but please, ask. It really helps.
Move us to a quiet place.We need time to think, to breathe. Being surrounded by people isn’t going to help.
Don’t make assumptions about what we need. Ask.We’ll tell you what we need. Sometimes; you may have to ask- but never assume.
Speak to us in short, simple sentences.
Be predictable. Avoid surprises.
Help slow our breathing by breathing us or by counting slowly to 10.As odd as it sounds, it works.


                                                                                                                 


WHAT YOU SHOULDN’T DO:1. Say, “You have nothing to be panicked about.”We know. We know. We know. And because we know we have nothing to be panicked about, we panic even more. When I realize that my anxiety is unfounded, I panic even more because then I feel like I’m not in touch with reality. It’s unsettling. Scary.Most of the time, a panic attack is irrational. Sometimes they stem from circumstances — a certain couch triggers a bad memory or being on an airplane makes you claustrophobic or a break up causes you to flip your lid — but mostly, the reasons I’m panicking are complex, hard to articulate or simply, unknown. I could tell myself all day that I have no reason to be having a panic attack and I would still be panicking. Sometimes, because I’m a perfectionist, I become even more overwhelmed when I think my behaviour is “unacceptable” (as I often believe it is when I’m panicking). I know it’s all in my mind, but my mind can be a pretty dark and scary place when it gets going.Alternate suggestion: Say, “I understand you’re upset. It is okay. You have a right to be upset and I am here to help.”2. Say, “Calm down.”This reminds me of a MadTV sketch where Bob Newhart plays a therapist who tells his patients to simply “Stop it!” whenever they express anxiety or fear. As a sketch, it’s funny. In real life, it’s one of the worst things you can do to someone having a panic attack. When someone tells me to “stop panicking” or to “calm down,” I just think, “Oh, okay. I haven’t tried that one. Hold on, let me get out a pen and paper and jot that down, you jerk.”Instead of taking action so that they do relax, simply telling a panicking person to “calm down” or “stop it” does nothing. No-thing.Alternate suggestion: The best thing to do is to listen and support. In order to calm them down without the generalities, counting helps.3. Say, “I’m just going to leave you alone for a minute.”Being left alone while panicking makes my heart race even harder. The last thing I want is to be left by myself with my troubled brain. Many of my panic attacks spark from over-thinking and it’s helpful to have another person with me, not only for medical reasons (in case I pass out or need water) but also it’s helpful to have another person around to force me to think about something other than the noise in my head.Alternate suggestion: It sometimes helps me if the person I’m with distracts me by telling me a story or sings to me. I need to get out of my own head and think about something other than my own panic.4. Say, “You’re overreacting.”Here’s the thing: I’m not. Panic attacks might be in my head, but I’m in actual physical pain. If you’d cut open your leg, no one would be telling you you’re overreacting. It’s a common trope in mental health to diminish the feelings or experience of someone suffering from anxiety or panic because there’s no visible physical ailment and because there’s no discernible reason for the person to be having such a strong fear reaction.The worst thing you can tell someone who is panicking is that they are overreacting.Alternate suggestion: Treat a panic attack like any other medical emergency. Listen to what the person is telling you. Get them water if they need it. It helps me if someone rubs my back a little. If you’re in over your head, don’t hesitate to call 911 (or whatever the emergency services number is where you are). But please, take the person seriously. Mental health deserves the same respect as physical health.



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WHAT YOU SHOULD DO:
    
  1. Stay with us and keep calm.
    The last thing we need when we’re panicking, is to have someone else panicking with us.

  2. Offer medicine if we usually take it during an attack.
    You might have to ask whether or not we take medicine- heck, some might not; but please, ask. It really helps.

  3. Move us to a quiet place.
    We need time to think, to breathe. Being surrounded by people isn’t going to help.

  4. Don’t make assumptions about what we need. Ask.
    We’ll tell you what we need. Sometimes; you may have to ask- but never assume.

  5. Speak to us in short, simple sentences.

  6. Be predictable. Avoid surprises.

  7. Help slow our breathing by breathing us or by counting slowly to 10.
    As odd as it sounds, it works.
                                                                                                                 
WHAT YOU SHOULDN’T DO:

1. Say, “You have nothing to be panicked about.”
We know. We know. We know. And because we know we have nothing to be panicked about, we panic even more. When I realize that my anxiety is unfounded, I panic even more because then I feel like I’m not in touch with reality. It’s unsettling. Scary.

Most of the time, a panic attack is irrational. Sometimes they stem from circumstances — a certain couch triggers a bad memory or being on an airplane makes you claustrophobic or a break up causes you to flip your lid — but mostly, the reasons I’m panicking are complex, hard to articulate or simply, unknown. I could tell myself all day that I have no reason to be having a panic attack and I would still be panicking. Sometimes, because I’m a perfectionist, I become even more overwhelmed when I think my behaviour is “unacceptable” (as I often believe it is when I’m panicking). I know it’s all in my mind, but my mind can be a pretty dark and scary place when it gets going.

Alternate suggestion: Say, “I understand you’re upset. It is okay. You have a right to be upset and I am here to help.”


2. Say, “Calm down.”
This reminds me of a MadTV sketch where Bob Newhart plays a therapist who tells his patients to simply “Stop it!” whenever they express anxiety or fear. As a sketch, it’s funny. In real life, it’s one of the worst things you can do to someone having a panic attack. When someone tells me to “stop panicking” or to “calm down,” I just think, “Oh, okay. I haven’t tried that one. Hold on, let me get out a pen and paper and jot that down, you jerk.

Instead of taking action so that they do relax, simply telling a panicking person to “calm down” or “stop it” does nothing. No-thing.

Alternate suggestion: The best thing to do is to listen and support. In order to calm them down without the generalities, counting helps.


3. Say, “I’m just going to leave you alone for a minute.”
Being left alone while panicking makes my heart race even harder. The last thing I want is to be left by myself with my troubled brain. Many of my panic attacks spark from over-thinking and it’s helpful to have another person with me, not only for medical reasons (in case I pass out or need water) but also it’s helpful to have another person around to force me to think about something other than the noise in my head.

Alternate suggestion: It sometimes helps me if the person I’m with distracts me by telling me a story or sings to me. I need to get out of my own head and think about something other than my own panic.


4. Say, “You’re overreacting.”
Here’s the thing: I’m not. Panic attacks might be in my head, but I’m in actual physical pain. If you’d cut open your leg, no one would be telling you you’re overreacting. It’s a common trope in mental health to diminish the feelings or experience of someone suffering from anxiety or panic because there’s no visible physical ailment and because there’s no discernible reason for the person to be having such a strong fear reaction.

The worst thing you can tell someone who is panicking is that they are overreacting.

Alternate suggestion: Treat a panic attack like any other medical emergency. Listen to what the person is telling you. Get them water if they need it. It helps me if someone rubs my back a little. If you’re in over your head, don’t hesitate to call 911 (or whatever the emergency services number is where you are). But please, take the person seriously. Mental health deserves the same respect as physical health.


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I grin. “That’s my kitten,” I praise before beginning to fuck her rough and hard. At first, I hold onto her hips, but then I let go, grabbing her breasts instead and kneading them roughly. I lean down and suck hard on the side of her neck.
Rose moans loudly.

I Lift my head. I release her breasts then pin her arms above her head, leaning down. It changing the position of the dildo inside her, pressing right against her g-spot. I stare into her eyes, panting as I fuck her with every ounce of strength that I have. The strap is rubbing my clit, causing my own arousal to grow. “My little kitten whore,” I pant. “Are you gonna cum for me again? Huh? You gonna cum around my thick cock?”

“Y-yes, m-aster” Rose stuttered while pulling Krys into a deep kiss.
I let go of Rose’s wrists and instead cradle her face, kissing her as hard as I can while slamming my hips into her. Forehead to forehead. Nose to nose. I pant. “Cum for me. Cum for your master. I may cum as well.”
Rose shakes her head and says “I can’t do it, master”.
I slow my thrust, lifting my head. “Why not?”
“I need to be in control for me to cum again” Rose smirks.
I kiss her. “You think I’m gonna give up control that easily?” I tease. “Think I’m just gonna let you take me?” I circle my hips, pushing the dildo against her g-spot. “You wanna fuck me?”
Rose cums after that thrust and breathes “Yes, I needed that”.
I kiss her repeatedly then slowly pull out, reaching down and unfastening the strapon harness. “Fuck me, kitten. Make me cum,” I command. I walk over to my bag and clean off the dildo with toy cleaner before walking back to the bed and tossing the set-up to her. “Make me cum,” I repeat, laying down on the bed, spreading my legs and lubing my pussy.
Before Rose puts on the strap-on she starts to tease Krys. First licking and biting the nipples.
I arch my back, moaning in pleasure. In response to my impossible arousal, my left nipple begins to leak milk. “Shit,” I moan.
Rose suckles the right one while collecting milk in a cup from the left.
I look down and run my fingers through her hair. “You’re going to drink me dry and you won’t have any left for later,” I whisper. I close my eyes and moan. “But don’t stop. Oh, God, it feels so good.”
Rose stops suckling and takes the cup but instead brings it her lips and drinks it then puts it near Krys’s mouth, “Drink” Rose said.
I do as I am told, resting my hand atop hers, drinking my own milk from the cup. Sure, I’ve had my own milk before, but never so much of it at one time.

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Women should NOT be forced to feed their babies in a bathroom, all because we live in a misogynistic, porn-warped society that’s been brainwashed to believe that female breasts used for anything other than male pleasure is “indecent”. Support public breast feeding and end the porn culture.

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I find this exceptionally revolting. And I want to know if this is a US thing, because my sister breast fed my niece pretty much anywhere in Italy - including at the restaurant where we had my niece’s christening’s luncheon/celebration - and nobody ever asked her to leave, to cover herself, or even batted an eye. 

Women should not feel ashamed to feed their babies in public. That is what breasts are for. This shit needs to stop, right now.

Breastfeeding is the best and healthiest possible option for momma and baby. It has benefits for both. Breasts are *meant* for this. That is why women have them. They are not decoration. Their main purpose is not a sexual one. The taboo against breastfeeding needs to end.

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I grin. “That’s my kitten,” I praise before beginning to fuck her rough and hard. At first, I hold onto her hips, but then I let go, grabbing her breasts instead and kneading them roughly. I lean down and suck hard on the side of her neck.
Rose moans loudly.

I Lift my head. I release her breasts then pin her arms above her head, leaning down. It changing the position of the dildo inside her, pressing right against her g-spot. I stare into her eyes, panting as I fuck her with every ounce of strength that I have. The strap is rubbing my clit, causing my own arousal to grow. “My little kitten whore,” I pant. “Are you gonna cum for me again? Huh? You gonna cum around my thick cock?”

“Y-yes, m-aster” Rose stuttered while pulling Krys into a deep kiss.
I let go of Rose’s wrists and instead cradle her face, kissing her as hard as I can while slamming my hips into her. Forehead to forehead. Nose to nose. I pant. “Cum for me. Cum for your master. I may cum as well.”
Rose shakes her head and says “I can’t do it, master”.
I slow my thrust, lifting my head. “Why not?”
“I need to be in control for me to cum again” Rose smirks.
I kiss her. “You think I’m gonna give up control that easily?” I tease. “Think I’m just gonna let you take me?” I circle my hips, pushing the dildo against her g-spot. “You wanna fuck me?”
Rose cums after that thrust and breathes “Yes, I needed that”.
I kiss her repeatedly then slowly pull out, reaching down and unfastening the strapon harness. “Fuck me, kitten. Make me cum,” I command. I walk over to my bag and clean off the dildo with toy cleaner before walking back to the bed and tossing the set-up to her. “Make me cum,” I repeat, laying down on the bed, spreading my legs and lubing my pussy.
Before Rose puts on the strap-on she starts to tease Krys. First licking and biting the nipples.
I arch my back, moaning in pleasure. In response to my impossible arousal, my left nipple begins to leak milk. “Shit,” I moan.
Rose suckles the right one while collecting milk in a cup from the left.
I look down and run my fingers through her hair. “You’re going to drink me dry and you won’t have any left for later,” I whisper. I close my eyes and moan. “But don’t stop. Oh, God, it feels so good.”

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I grin. “That’s my kitten,” I praise before beginning to fuck her rough and hard. At first, I hold onto her hips, but then I let go, grabbing her breasts instead and kneading them roughly. I lean down and suck hard on the side of her neck.
Rose moans loudly.

I Lift my head. I release her breasts then pin her arms above her head, leaning down. It changing the position of the dildo inside her, pressing right against her g-spot. I stare into her eyes, panting as I fuck her with every ounce of strength that I have. The strap is rubbing my clit, causing my own arousal to grow. “My little kitten whore,” I pant. “Are you gonna cum for me again? Huh? You gonna cum around my thick cock?”

“Y-yes, m-aster” Rose stuttered while pulling Krys into a deep kiss.
I let go of Rose’s wrists and instead cradle her face, kissing her as hard as I can while slamming my hips into her. Forehead to forehead. Nose to nose. I pant. “Cum for me. Cum for your master. I may cum as well.”
Rose shakes her head and says “I can’t do it, master”.
I slow my thrust, lifting my head. “Why not?”
“I need to be in control for me to cum again” Rose smirks.
I kiss her. “You think I’m gonna give up control that easily?” I tease. “Think I’m just gonna let you take me?” I circle my hips, pushing the dildo against her g-spot. “You wanna fuck me?”
Rose cums after that thrust and breathes “Yes, I needed that”.
I kiss her repeatedly then slowly pull out, reaching down and unfastening the strapon harness. “Fuck me, kitten. Make me cum,” I command. I walk over to my bag and clean off the dildo with toy cleaner before walking back to the bed and tossing the set-up to her. “Make me cum,” I repeat, laying down on the bed, spreading my legs and lubing my pussy.
Before Rose puts on the strap-on she starts to tease Krys. First licking and biting the nipples.
I arch my back, moaning in pleasure. In response to my impossible arousal, my left nipple begins to leak milk. “Shit,” I moan.

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I grin. “That’s my kitten,” I praise before beginning to fuck her rough and hard. At first, I hold onto her hips, but then I let go, grabbing her breasts instead and kneading them roughly. I lean down and suck hard on the side of her neck.
Rose moans loudly.

I Lift my head. I release her breasts then pin her arms above her head, leaning down. It changing the position of the dildo inside her, pressing right against her g-spot. I stare into her eyes, panting as I fuck her with every ounce of strength that I have. The strap is rubbing my clit, causing my own arousal to grow. “My little kitten whore,” I pant. “Are you gonna cum for me again? Huh? You gonna cum around my thick cock?”

“Y-yes, m-aster” Rose stuttered while pulling Krys into a deep kiss.
I let go of Rose’s wrists and instead cradle her face, kissing her as hard as I can while slamming my hips into her. Forehead to forehead. Nose to nose. I pant. “Cum for me. Cum for your master. I may cum as well.”
Rose shakes her head and says “I can’t do it, master”.
I slow my thrust, lifting my head. “Why not?”
“I need to be in control for me to cum again” Rose smirks.
I kiss her. “You think I’m gonna give up control that easily?” I tease. “Think I’m just gonna let you take me?” I circle my hips, pushing the dildo against her g-spot. “You wanna fuck me?”
Rose cums after that thrust and breathes “Yes, I needed that”.
I kiss her repeatedly then slowly pull out, reaching down and unfastening the strapon harness. “Fuck me, kitten. Make me cum,” I command. I walk over to my bag and clean off the dildo with toy cleaner before walking back to the bed and tossing the set-up to her. “Make me cum,” I repeat, laying down on the bed, spreading my legs and lubing my pussy.

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I grin. “That’s my kitten,” I praise before beginning to fuck her rough and hard. At first, I hold onto her hips, but then I let go, grabbing her breasts instead and kneading them roughly. I lean down and suck hard on the side of her neck.
Rose moans loudly.

I Lift my head. I release her breasts then pin her arms above her head, leaning down. It changing the position of the dildo inside her, pressing right against her g-spot. I stare into her eyes, panting as I fuck her with every ounce of strength that I have. The strap is rubbing my clit, causing my own arousal to grow. “My little kitten whore,” I pant. “Are you gonna cum for me again? Huh? You gonna cum around my thick cock?”

“Y-yes, m-aster” Rose stuttered while pulling Krys into a deep kiss.
I let go of Rose’s wrists and instead cradle her face, kissing her as hard as I can while slamming my hips into her. Forehead to forehead. Nose to nose. I pant. “Cum for me. Cum for your master. I may cum as well.”
Rose shakes her head and says “I can’t do it, master”.
I slow my thrust, lifting my head. “Why not?”
“I need to be in control for me to cum again” Rose smirks.
I kiss her. “You think I’m gonna give up control that easily?” I tease. “Think I’m just gonna let you take me?” I circle my hips, pushing the dildo against her g-spot. “You wanna fuck me?”

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I grin. “That’s my kitten,” I praise before beginning to fuck her rough and hard. At first, I hold onto her hips, but then I let go, grabbing her breasts instead and kneading them roughly. I lean down and suck hard on the side of her neck.
Rose moans loudly.

I Lift my head. I release her breasts then pin her arms above her head, leaning down. It changing the position of the dildo inside her, pressing right against her g-spot. I stare into her eyes, panting as I fuck her with every ounce of strength that I have. The strap is rubbing my clit, causing my own arousal to grow. “My little kitten whore,” I pant. “Are you gonna cum for me again? Huh? You gonna cum around my thick cock?”

“Y-yes, m-aster” Rose stuttered while pulling Krys into a deep kiss.
I let go of Rose’s wrists and instead cradle her face, kissing her as hard as I can while slamming my hips into her. Forehead to forehead. Nose to nose. I pant. “Cum for me. Cum for your master. I may cum as well.”
Rose shakes her head and says “I can’t do it, master”.
I slow my thrust, lifting my head. “Why not?”